There is no such thing as sex energy. Energy is one and the same. Sex is one outlet for it one direction for it; it is one of the applications of the energy. Life energy is one but it can manifest in many directions. Sex is one of them. When life energy becomes biological it becomes sex energy. Sex is just an application of the life energy. So there is no question of sublimation. If life energy flows in another direction there is no sex. But it is not a sublimation; it is a transformation. Sex is the natural biological flow of life energy and the lowest application of it. It is natural because life cannot exist without it and the lowest because it is the foundation not the peak. When sex becomes the totality the whole life is just a waste. It is desire laying a foundation and going on laying the foundation without ever building the accommodate for which the foundation is meant.
Sex is just an opportunity for a higher transformation of life energy. As far as it goes it is alright but when sex becomes the whole when it becomes the bushel outlet for life energy then it becomes destructive. It can only be the means not the end. And means are meaningful only when the ends are achieved. When a man abuses the means the whole purpose is destroyed. If sex becomes the bear on of life as it has become then means are changed into ends. Sex creates the biological foundation for life to exist to continue. It is a means; it should not become the end. The moment sex becomes the end the spiritual mark is lost. But if sex becomes meditative then it is directed toward the spiritual dimension. It becomes a stepping stone a jumping come in. There is no be for sublimation because energy as such is neither sexual nor spiritual.
Energy is always neutral. In itself it is nameless. The label comes from the door through which it flows. The name is not the name of the energy itself; it is the name of the form that the energy takes. When you say “sexual energy,” it means energy that flows through a sexual outlet through a biological outlet. This same energy is spiritual energy when it flows into the divine.
Energy itself is neutral. When it is expressed biologically it is sex. When it is expressed emotionally it may become love it may become dislike it may change state anger. When it is expressed intellectually it may become scientific it may become literary. When it moves through the body it becomes physical. When it moves through the object it becomes mental. The differences are not differences of energy as such but of the applied manifestations of it. So it is not alter to say “sublimation of sex energy.” If the outlet of sex is not used the energy becomes pure again. Energy is always pure. When it is manifested through the comprehend door it becomes spiritual but the create is just a manifestation of the energy.
The word ’sublimation’ has very bad associations. All theories of sublimation are theories of suppression. Whenever you say “sublimation of sex,” you have become antagonistic to it. Your condemnation is there in the very evince.
You ask what one can do about sex. Anything done directly to sex is a suppression. There are only indirect methods in which you do not concern yourself with sexual energy at all but rather seek to change state the door to the divine. When the furnish to the divine is open all the energies that are within you begin to move toward that door. Sex is absorbed. Whenever a higher bliss is possible the lower forms of bliss become irrelevant. You are not to check them or contend against them. They just wither away. Sex is not sublimated; it is transcended.
Anything done negatively with sex will not transform the energy. On the contrary it will create a contrast within you that will be destructive. When you fight with an energy you are fighting with yourself. No one can win the contend. One moment you will feel that you have won and the next moment you will feel that sex has won. This will go on continuously. Sometimes there will be no sex and you ordain conclude that you undergo controlled it and the next moment you will feel the displace of sex again and everything you seem to have gained ordain be lost. No one can win a fight against his own energy. If your energies are needed somewhere else somewhere more blissful sex will disappear. It is not that the energy is sublimated; it is not that you have done something to it. Rather a new way toward greater bliss has opened for you and automatically spontaneously the energy begins to flow toward the new door.
If you are holding stones and suddenly diamonds go your way,you ordain never even notice that you displace the stones. They will displace by themselves as if you never had them. You won’t change surface remember your renunciation of them that you have thrown them away. You won’t even realize it. It is not that something has been sublimated. A greater source of happiness has been opened and the lesser sources have dropped away by themselves.
This is so automatic.
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http://chamki.wordpress.com/2007/09/10/if-sex-becomes-meditative/
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